Sex
Before marriage- "Let's Start a New Trend"
Yesterday, I was at work having Salon talk; and a Hair client and I were talking about the many reasons that we're still single for such a long period of time. Being single at 32 years old is not the worst thing in the world; but it can become very discouraging if the pickings are far and few between. My Hair client made a valid clue on why were still single, she made the connection between morals and not comprimising. The reason she made this connection is because, there is a growing population of women that are becoming second-time virgins. That's right "Second Time Virgins" and life has taught them; not to sell the milk before the whole cow has been purchased.
Sex before marriage can be a raw deal for many women that feel like their moral values are not respected by a potential husband. Or even worse marriage may never become a reality if a man knows that he can have sex without an emotional committment. So many Guys are always reinterating their looking for a good-woman and yet the good-women that they may come across becomes yesterday's trash because sex is not a top priority to these moral validated women.
Rather most men establish committed relationships with women who have questionable lifestyles, just because their willing to sleep with them. The down fall to those relationships is are unwanted pregnacies, affairs, and deception that can come about because women that are easily swayed to sleep with men before marriage, are really not in a strong mindset. I propose that we start a new trend and begin a new concept in approaching relationships, let's start our relationships off right and withold from sex before marriage, it's not only a commitment but it's also a statement that you want the best for yourself. 
What's your take on this blog?....I want to know
1 comment:
There are certain things in this life that deserve compromise. However, for me, sex before marriage is not one of them any longer. My decision is totally from a spiritual point of view. I am not perfect and so this decision is not easy but I love my GOD and want to do things HIS way and not mine and that's why sex before marriage is no longer a valid option for me.
As you can imagine, dating for me is almost impossible. Everything is great until the subject of sex comes up and then it's not. I am use to the reactions from men now and have kind of stopped trying to date. I am not giving up on love. I just don't look for it...
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